Over the last few months or year even I have found myself reconsidering how I feel about boundaries. It’s taken me a while to come to any conclusion because it is actually quite a complex area to navigate. I felt a
Impatience represents a great distrust of life; left unchecked it will undermine your sense of wellbeing
I used to be very impatient rushing at things or charging headlong like the Taurean bull that I am and even now I experience that at times. Afterwards I would wonder why everything lay in ruins around me. According to Richard Rudd, founder of the Gene Keys,
The season of relationships – what is simmering under the surface?
I loved the colours and the light captured in this photo. As you take a moment to really connect to this tree what does it say about you and your relationship with your partner? In this week’s stillness is the
How often do you find yourself saying if only…?
The biggest abuses in society happen when people cannot communicate or connect Recently I started working with a new client, an incredibly powerful, magnificent being in so many ways. Yet they/them cannot see it yet. As a child when they were
What is “isness”?
I am less and less a creature of influences in myself which operate beyond my ken in the realms of the unconscious. I am increasingly an architect of self. I am free to will and choose. I can, through accepting
How do you help a loved one in pain?
On Sunday morning I felt like the walking dead because I had only had about 5 hours sleep. As you know the best way to increase your resilience is to get a good night’s sleep. So what happened? Before I
Unless commitment is made there are only promises and hopes; no solid plans
I got an email from my accountant this week asking me if I wanted to be furloughed. I promptly replied saying no. Although Covid-19 has had an adverse impact on my business in some ways, I am still serving many
What stops you speaking your truth?
When I was young if my father spoke quietly with me and said he was disappointed in me, it had a very powerful effect. I could feel the full weight of his disappointment and felt awful for letting him down.
Understanding the power and control dynamics at play in relationships
In a conversation that I was having recently with one of my uncles the topic of parenting came up. It feels relevant to share it with you here because it illustrates a dilemma that all leaders face be that in