The biggest abuses in society happen when people cannot communicate or connect Recently I started working with a new client, an incredibly powerful, magnificent being in so many ways. Yet they/them cannot see it yet. As a child when they were
What is “isness”?
I am less and less a creature of influences in myself which operate beyond my ken in the realms of the unconscious. I am increasingly an architect of self. I am free to will and choose. I can, through accepting
How do you help a loved one in pain?
On Sunday morning I felt like the walking dead because I had only had about 5 hours sleep. As you know the best way to increase your resilience is to get a good night’s sleep. So what happened? Before I
Unless commitment is made there are only promises and hopes; no solid plans
I got an email from my accountant this week asking me if I wanted to be furloughed. I promptly replied saying no. Although Covid-19 has had an adverse impact on my business in some ways, I am still serving many
What stops you speaking your truth?
When I was young if my father spoke quietly with me and said he was disappointed in me, it had a very powerful effect. I could feel the full weight of his disappointment and felt awful for letting him down.
Understanding the power and control dynamics at play in relationships
In a conversation that I was having recently with one of my uncles the topic of parenting came up. It feels relevant to share it with you here because it illustrates a dilemma that all leaders face be that in